Sex Secrets of an American Geisha

Wednesday, January 03, 2007

Indie Journal Daily

Tuesday, January 02, 2007

Your American Geisha Offers her Top 5 New Year’s Resolutions for Single Women

Ask yourself: what do you want most in my life? What I found in my research, and what it was certainly true for myself was that most women want both love and marriage more than anything else in their lives. If this true for you, then I suggest the following top five resolutions.

1. Make your first resolution of 2007 to find love and marriage this year: Make it your highest priority: focus on love and marriage as a goal, spend time working toward that goal, and be willing to spend money on accomplishing that goal.

2. Be more sexy, not sexual (unless you’re in a committed relationship). Remember: sex does not get you married; sexy attracts the attention of men. Always be classy in your sexiness, to attract Good Men.


3. Work out to attract Good Men to you. Although this may not be politically correct to say, I believe your third resolution is to work out to attract Good Men to you, since men are so visual. Don’t chase men, as I did so unsuccessfully. Instead, attract them to you with your femininity and beauty. And spend money on your clothes, your makeup, and your health in order to be more beautiful. We women are lucky. When we work on our beauty, men will also tend to see as more feminine and secy. Or if we’re more feminine, they’ll also see us as sexier and more beautiful. Work on any ONE of these areas and men will see you as more ATTRACTIVE in all THREE areas.

4. Lose weight until you are at your most attractive weight. Not skinny or too thin, but your best, healthiest, most attractive weight. My fourth suggestion is again, not very politically correct---but it is practically correct. Again, we have to remember that since men are so visual, they are attracted to a woman who is at her best---her most attractive---weight. You need a plan---not a diet---to get and maintain your best, most attractive weight, in order to be ATTRACTIVE and ATTRACT the man’s eyes. My American Geisha Weigh Loss Plan has nothing to do with food, calories, and portion sizes: that’s a diet, and diets don’t work. My plan focuses on just two things: record and stay aware of your weight and your exercise on a DAILY basis. Specifically, keep a daily weight and exercise chart on your refrigerator so that you are always aware and conscious on a daily and continuing basis of what your weight is and how much exercising you and doing. Staying aware is the key.


5. Date only Good Men. Do not waste your precious time dating Wrong men. In “Sex Secrets of an American Geisha,” I help you to define who a Good Man is for you. You make progress toward love and marriage with a Good Man only when you date Good Men, one of whom you will ultimately choose as your husband.

Adapted from "Sex Secrets of an American Geisha: How to Attract, Satisfy, and Keep Your Man." (Hunter House)

Sunday, December 31, 2006

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Friday, November 24, 2006

Find Your G-Spot and Learn to Female Ejaculate

With a happy, serene smile on my face and a sleepy, satiated look in my eyes, let me make clear to you, from my own earth-shattering personal experience and from my conclusive research, that the existence of the G-spot and female ejaculation is settled physiological fact, a discovery that can lead to the most intense pleasure and orgasmic release you will ever experience in your life! If that’s not worth a heartfelt “Gee!” (as in “gee”-spot) I don’t know what is.
In this blog, you will find and learn to stimulate your G-spot and will become that most feminine and sexual of American Geisha: a female ejaculator, a “shooter.”
Let me start by clearing up a commonly held misconception: The ejaculate you forcefully emit is a clear, somewhat sweet liquid that I call Gräfenberg Juice (after the doctor who clinically identified the G-spot). It is definitely not urine or even remotely related to urine.


The G-spot and female ejaculation really do exist. I know. I’m a female ejaculator, a “shooter.” If you, dear Younger Sister, are among those who are still unconvinced of this physio-sexual reality, this will be a life-changing chapter for you. Your sex life will never be the same, my oh so fortunate reader. I want to clearly convey to you my experience with female ejaculation, hoping that as I express myself you will both recognize the reality of this phenomenon and begin to imagine the possibilities for yourself. Here I tell my story in an open, explicit way that makes you feel like you are there, almost experiencing my ejaculation yourself.

Sometimes my husband, Rich, and I will be making love without any intention of my ejaculating, and then the idea will strike one of us. We’ll start to adjust our lovemaking to go in the direction of having a “shooting” orgasm, as we usually call it. Other times Rich might say, “Tonight is your night, baby. I want you to shoot into my mouth.” That excites me. But we never put pressure on me to ejaculate. It’s perfectly okay with both of us if I don’t.

A lot of trust is involved in a G-spot, shooting orgasm, especially when you are doing it the first few times. You have to trust yourself that you can do it (but with no pressure). You have to trust that your partner will not have a negative reaction. At one point you’ll have to trust that the familiar feelings of needing to pee are in fact the feelings of imminent female ejaculation, not at all related to peeing.

I adapted this part from "Sex Secrets of an American Geisha: How to Attract, Satisfy, and Keep Your Man." (published by Hunter House). Due to Myspace policy (too graphic with x-rated), I can’t post any further about “A Most Outrageous Description of My Ejaculation…. But you can find more about from "Sex Secrets of an American Geisha.

Sunday, November 19, 2006

Will Sex Get Him to Commit?

Will Sex Get Him to Commit?
You may imagine that agreeing to have sex before you have a monogamous commitment from a man could lead to the commitment you seek. Wrong. If he gets to have sex with you before commitment, you lose some of your power to get him to commit. After all, why should he commit further if he’s already having sex with you? Yes, you may answer, but with sexual intimacy he’ll fall for me even more. Wrong again. With sexual intimacy before commitment, all you know is that his manhood is in love with your vagina. You are beautiful, feminine, and have a gorgeous, fully shaved vagina. Of course, he’s in love with your sexual organs! What man wouldn’t be? But you want his love for you to come before his love for your sexual organs.

By the way, “instant commitments” don’t count. If you’ve teased him to the point of nakedness or of being only an undergarment away from nakedness, and then ask him, “You do love me, don’t you?” do not be fooled by the answer “Of course I do.” That is his manhood talking. At this point his brain has been kidnapped by his throbbing manhood. All his brain blood now resides in his swollen one, and his is totally in charge of what his mouth says. “Of course I love you” means “Of course I love your sexual organs.” If you let a Good Man have sex with you before commitment, you risk losing that Good Man because you were too easy; you weren’t selective or demanding enough.

Be patient. Get the commitment first. You need to have sex only with a committed Good Man.

It may take you several weeks or several months of dating a man to determine whether you want to have sex with him. This is not an unreasonable time frame for such an important decision. Again, it is totally appropriate to share your thoughts with a man regarding your qualifications of a Good Man and your fundamental needs. Also discuss how he sees your relationship, both now and in the future. If you decide that sex with this man is appropriate for you, then mutually commit to monogamy and go for it. If he is unwilling to commit to monogamy, do not agree to have sex with him.

Adapted from "Sex Secrets of an American Geisha: How to Attract, Satisfy, and Keep Your Man." (published by Hunter House)

Sunday, November 12, 2006

Evie's Book Notes: Sex Secrets of an American Geisha

Wednesday, November 01, 2006

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